Monday 21 October 2013

Eid Dinner Attire


Asalam alaykum warahmatullah wabarakatuh my dear sisters,am back again from a long Eid holiday and guess what!!!! its Basma k again getting my attention she real got it super classy...there you are don't fear black abaya  for outings,just look how more beautiful and modesty she is with it.For more of Basma k Collection styles go to Basmak k style collection.



Thursday 10 October 2013

Muslimah Official Attires


Asalam Alaykum Warahmatullah Wabarakatuh dear sister,

Well as my profile explains it all i will be posting anything sorrounding  a muslimah from clothing,parenting,gardening etc today i would like to share more on office attires i found from other bloggers who are muslim sisters as well.Why muslim sisters? because they are experiencing the same things like what to wear that will cover my whole body except my face and hands of cause we all know the first choice would be  abaya and i would opt  for it Alhamdulillah now i can't get outside of the house without putting it on,this comes gradually as your eman increases and you get to spend time with other sisters in darsas,workshops etcs but we have sisters who likes fashion or lets say appearing professionally but still wish to keep it modesty then here we are;

 Abayas can be business looking  because they are usually plain and straight up & down with no embellishments.




Note:Very tight skirts wouldn't be fitting in a muslimah   dress code  context according to sunnah and the holy Qur'an  but you can make it loose a bit.Am sorry but am guiding myself and others who would like to stay within the boundaries so am being very careful with what i post here.


You can use different head scarfs from black with white pokadots,cream,light blue like the blouse's color or brown and  any other color you may  prefer.


Muslima Fashionista like Basmak her name is Asma,you can view her blog for you to get more style tipjust click on her name.



..and lastly my favorite sister Basma K









Friday 4 October 2013

Head Scarf


Asalam alaykum warahmatullah wabarakatuh,

My number one  head scarf designer she never miss my attention........Basma k Styles.just see for yourselves how this sister rocks the hijjab #Teamhijjabisisters



Wednesday 2 October 2013

LOL


If only there could be Disney princess with Hijjab our kids could have enjoyed alot!!!!!!

 We are all used to see her throw down the hair so that her prince charming could go up but this time not possible  because her hair is COVERED.
Dedicated to Zamaradi and Sakina.

Hajj 2013



Asalam alaykum warahmatullah wabarakatuh dear sisters,

While reading  the below article about Hajj benefits, it made me to imagine  how much am missing by not performing hajj, there is no greater gift that i would have given to myself than this  kher In shaa Allah but we have to keep in mind it needs preparation lets say shortly a year cause much as someone would have the financial capabilities you need also to get prepared by making a niyah (intention) , gather all the knowledge one could get from Maalimas etcs (reliable sources of Islamic knowledge) also we have to bear in mind that coming back to our communities we have to completely stop whatever was keeping us away from Allah.May we all get an opportunity to perform hajj and may all those who have got this chance maintain the status as pure believes lets try our best not to go back to whatever we were before.



Performing the rituals of Hajj has many virtues and there is a great deal of wisdom behind them. The one who is enabled to understand them and do them is blessed with a great deal of good. We will try to list as many as we can here. 

1.Traveling for Hajj to perform the rituals; his journey reminds him his journey to Allaah and the Hereafter. When he travels he leaves behind his loved ones, family, children and homeland, and the journey to the Hereafter is like that too.

2.The one who goes on this journey takes with him supplies that will help him reach the holy land, and this reminds him that for the journey to his Lord, he must have with him provisions that will help him to arrive safely. Concerning this, Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): “And take a provision (with you) for the journey, but the best provision is At-Taqwa (piety, righteousness)” [al-Baqarah 2:197].

3.Just as travelling is a kind of torment, the journey to the Hereafter is like that too, and many times greater. Ahead of a person there is the agony of death, death itself, the grave, the gathering, the reckoning, the weighing in the Balance, and al-Siraat (a bridge across Hell, over which all must pass), then Paradise or Hell. The blessed one is the one whom Allaah saves.

4.When the pilgrim wears the ihraam garments (two pieces of unsewn white cloth), this reminds him of the shroud in which he will be wrapped. This motivates him to give up sin. Just as he sheds his clothes, he should also shed his sins; just as he puts on two clean white garments, his heart and limbs should also be clean and untainted with sin.

5.When he says at the meeqaat (the point at which pilgrims enter ihraam), Labbayk Allaahumma labbaayk (Here I am at Your service, O Allaah)”, which means that he has responded to his Lord, may He be exalted, how can he remain in a state of sin without saying to his Lord, “Labbayk Allaahumma labbaayk (Here I am at Your service, O Allaah)”, meaning, I have responded to Your prohibition of them. This is the time to give up sin.

6.When he gives up the things that are forbidden when in ihraam, and keeps busy with the talbiyah and dhikr (remembering Allaah), this shows the state that the Muslim should always be in. This is a means of training and disciplining himself, because he is disciplining himself by giving up what is basically permitted, but Allaah has forbidden it to him in this situation. So how can he transgress the sacred limits that Allaah has set for all times and places?

7.When he enters the sacred House of Allaah, which Allaah has made a place of safety for mankind, this reminds him of safety on the Day of Resurrection, and that no one can attain it without effort and striving. The greatest source of safety on the Day of Resurrection is Tawheed (belief in the Oneness of Allaah) and avoiding shirk (associating others with Allaah). Concerning this Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): “It is those who believe (in the Oneness of Allaah and worship none but Him Alone) and confuse not their Belief with Zulm (wrong, i.e. by worshipping others besides Allaah), for them (only) there is security and they are the guided” [al-An’aam 6:82].
When he kisses the Black Stone, which is the first ritual that he does, this trains the visitor to venerate the Sunnah (the way of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him)), and not to transgress against the law of Allaah on the basis of his flawed reasoning. He knows that what Allaah has prescribed for mankind is wise and good, and he trains himself to submit fully to his Lord, may He be exalted. Concerning that, ‘Umar (may Allaah be pleased with him) said, after kissing the Black Stone: “I know that you are just a stone and you can neither cause harm nor bring benefit. Were it not that I saw the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) kissing you, I would not have kissed you.” Narrated by al-Bukhaari (1520) and Muslim (1720).

8.When he circumambulates the Ka’bah, that reminds him of his father Ibraaheem (Abraham, peace be upon him), and how he built the Ka’bah as a place of safety for mankind and called them to come on pilgrimage to this House. Then came our Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) who also called people to come to this House. Moosa (Moses) and ‘Eesa (Jesus – peace be upon them both) also came on pilgrimage to this House, which is therefore a symbol of these Prophets. How could it be otherwise when Allaah commanded Ibraaheem (peace be upon him) to build it and venerate it?

9.When he drinks the water of Zamzam, this reminds him of the blessing that Allaah has bestowed upon people in this blessed water, from which millions of people have drunk for many centuries, and it still has not dried up. He is encouraged to say du’aa’ (supplication) when drinking it, because the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “The water of Zamzam is for whatever it is drunk for.” Narrated by Ibn Maajah (3062) and Ahmad (14435). It is a hasan hadeeth which was classed as such by Ibn al-Qayyim (may Allaah have mercy on him) in Zaad al-Ma’aad (4/320).

10.The saa’i (running) between al-Safa and al-Marwa reminds him of the great hardship undergone by our mother Haajar (Hagar), and how she ran between al-Safa and al-Marwa looking for someone to save her from the trouble in which she found herself, and especially for water to give to her young son Ismaa’eel (Ishmael). This woman bore this test with patience, and turned to her Lord. In her we have a good example, because when a man remembers the striving and patience of this woman, his problems seem less significant, and when a woman remembers one of her own gender, her hardship becomes easier to bear.

11.Standing in ‘Arafah reminds the pilgrim of the great gathering of mankind on the Day of Gathering. If the pilgrim suffers exhaustion because of the crowding together of thousands of people, then how about when all of mankind are gathered, barefoot, naked and uncircumcised?

12.As we said with regard to kissing the Black Stone, so too when stoning the Jamaraat (stone pillars representing the Devil), the Muslim trains himself to be obedient and to follow the example of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him). Thus he manifests pure submission to Allaah.

13.When he offers the sacrifice, this reminds him of the important incident when our father Ibraaheem submitted to Allaah’s command to sacrifice his only son Ismaa’eel (Ishmael), and that there is no room for compassion which goes against the commands and prohibitions of Allaah. It also teaches him to respond to the command of Allaah, as Ismaa’eel said: “ ‘O my father! Do that which you are commanded, In sha’ Allaah (if Allaah wills), you shall find me of As‑Saabiroon (the patient)’” [al-Saffaat 37:102].

14.When he exits ihraam and that which Allaah had forbidden to him during ihraam becomes permissible to him again, this trains him to be patient, and teaches him that with hardship goes ease, and that the outcome for the one who responds to the command of Allaah is joy and happiness. This joy can only be felt by the one who tastes the sweetness of obedience, like the joy that the fasting person feels when he breaks his fast, or that the one who spends the night in prayer feels after he has prayed.

15.When he has finished the rituals of Hajj and done them as Allaah has prescribed and as He likes, and has completed his rituals, he has the hope that his Lord will forgive him all his sins, as the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) promised when he said: “Whoever comes to this House and does not utter any obscene speech or do any evil deed, will go back as his mother bore him.” Narrated by al-Bukhaari (1449) and Muslim (1350). This motivates him to turn over a new leaf in his life, free from sin.

16.When he goes back to his wife and children, the joy of meeting them reminds him of the greater joy he will feel when he meets them in the Paradise of Allaah, may He be exalted. This reminds him that true loss is loss of oneself and one's family on the Day of Resurrection, as Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): Say (O Muhammad): The losers are those who will lose themselves and their families on the Day of Resurrection. Verily, that will be a manifest loss! [al-Zumar 39:15]. 


And Allaah knows best.





Tuesday 1 October 2013

DUA -SUPPLICATION


Asalam Alaykum Warahmatullah Wabarakatuh dear Sisters,

Well today i woke up thinking about two special verses i find them so dear to  me,i usually find comfort wherever i read these verses it does not matter what issue is disturbing me at that particular moment but as   Allah knows everything about me more than i think i know myself, then its up to me to have trust in his words and hope for that best moment to come.

 Allah says "Yaa Hayyuallazeen amanoo,Innalillah masabeern"All you  who have believe (in Islamic monotheism) indeed Allah is with the patience."Hakika Mwenyezi Mungu yupo na wale wenye kusubiri"

Surah baqhara Yaa yu kalifulahu nafsan "Allah does not burden a soul beyond what it can not bear"

Ewe mwenyezi mungu hakika mimi nimuhitaji walile jema ulilolikusudia juu yangu.

 Hadith
 “Verily your Lord is Generous and Shy.If His servant raises his hands to Him (in supplication) He becomes shy to return them empty” (Ahmad, Abu Dawood, Tirmidhi).


 “So when you have decided, then place your trust in Allah; surely Allah loves those who trust.”[15]

Here Allah tells us not hesitate once you have made a decision then go aheard with it put your full trust in Allah and also remember everything is done for Allah (Iklahs)